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Gracious Reviews- Strawberry Shortcake- A blast from your mom's past and a new fresh makeover for the sweet little red haired girl. by Olivia

Top 100 Girl Vendors- No matter the age, all girls that have an online business may apply to our 100 Top list.



Lady, Be Mine- True love for any pet owner. by Mj

Pet of the Month- February Pet of the Month. "Quaker"


A Lovely Heritage- Read a portion of Valentine history and a challenge on how to create your own history. -Jess

GGM Interview- Rachael and falling in love.
If You're Real, Show Me- Salvation Story by Angie




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Monthly Columns:

Think Pink- "The Basics" by Jocelyn



Healthy Steps- "Nutrition Information" by Jess

The Remote ConTroll- "America's Top Model" by Jess

Just Ask Gracie- Sibling Jealousy


The Fact of the Matter- "A Matter of Life and Death" by Sisterlisa



Cloak and Dagger- "Battling the War in Our Thoughts" by Amanda

C.I.A.- "What is a Friend?" By Amanda

Thorns and Roses- "If I just had the MONEY..." by Jocelyn

Bridging the Gap- Building Relationships Between Mothers and Daughters- "A Sweet Relationship" by Jacque

The Faith Factor- by Mj and Sisterlisa http://www.growingingraceonline.com/2008/01/faith-factor-m-gospel.html

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Bridging The Gap - A Sweet Relationship


There are many things the relationship between mother and daughter can be. The world gives us a different attitude about motherhood than the Word does. The world's view is of one that is not really much of a relationship and totally without a Godly influence. It is seen as something that is only by means of blood-relations or selfishness, getting what you can get from the relationship. It is not of two loving hearts bound together working toward a common goal in the Lord.


On the other hand, the mother-daughter relationship the Word gives is very different. It can be that uncommon relationship of God's love, like the love Ruth showed to Naomi, her mother-in-law. A love that walks miles with the other, loving, denying one's self, lifting up in words and in prayer, working and providing for if necessary.



Most of us have relationships as mothers and daughters somewhere in -between those two types of relationships. A completely giving relationship is a rare find. Some of us have the lesser one. I believe mine with my mother was good until I started to care what the world had to offer me. I did not grow up in a Christian home, but my mother is one of the biggest Givers I know. She was easy to love. She cared about us and our lives. She put herself and her love into my life, and I returned it for awhile. Then I 'grew up', so I thought. I didn't need my mom as a daughter, in my own immature eyes. I turned to friends and listened to what they thought was best for me. They were wrong. I needed my mother, not their influences.



A Godly loving relationship as mother and daughter carries a sweetness that is uncommon in the world we live in. It is not a selfish relationship. It is out of a heart of love. A love for our daughters, a daughter's love for her mother, and a love for the Lord. The blessings we reap from such a relationship are so numerous, it would be hard to list them all. Even when there is conflict, when God is in it, His love comes through.
Such a sweet relationship allows us to pray for our daughters and their futures according to what God may have for them.


I am so blessed to have five beautiful daughters. I remember when my oldest, who is now eighteen, was a little girl. What she doesn't realize is that she will always be my little girl. And now, as a young lady, she is my friend and confidante too. The sweetness of childhood is not gone, but changed. It is still there, but in a different measure. A measure she can experience as an eighteen-year-old daughter while seeing a different measure with her eight-year-old sister. Or her ten-month-old sister.

Our relationships will change as time passes. They will change as life changes. They will change as we each grow in the Lord. One of the loveliest things about a relationship between a mother and a daughter is that growing. The relationship will change, but the sweetness will remain, if we walk in love. It will be a bittersweet love at times, when things don't go as we think they should, but if it is rooted in God's love, it will always return to its sweetness.

Ephesians 5:2 tells us to "walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour."

As mothers and daughters, we can always be a sweet-smelling savour to our Lord. We can be that as mothers. We can be that as daughters. We can be that together. When we do that, walking in love, we will also be a sweetness to each other in our mother-daughter relationships.

blessings~

If You Are Real, Show Me



There once was a little girl who had a good life. She had a warm safe home, loving parents, food a plenty, trinkets and toys to occupy her days, and lovely clothes to wear. All her needs were fully and completely satisfied, but there was something amiss in her life, a void which could not be filled.

So, as the little girl grew in stature she began to try and fill that empty hole with all the enticements and foolery that the world had to offer. These vain attempts to satisfy an unexplainable yearning in her heart only proved to create greater turmoil and strife. Fear became her friend and constant companion.

The now young lady felt very lonely and began looking for love. The problem was that she looked in the most inappropriate places. No matter how hard she tried, all the cravings and desires of her soul could not be satisfied. Instead, more pain and emptiness was heaped upon her depraved heart. She yearned for approval and lost herself in pleasing others. She was completely lost.

While utterly alone and devastated by all the trappings of the world and people therein, she met a nice man who seemed different from all the others. He exuded love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control, qualities that she desperately wanted to acquire, but thus far had been elusive.

The nice man so generously taught her about the One through whom these things could be found…to be found…oh how she longed to be found!

As a grown woman, one who had shared the company of many a book, she picked up a new Book…the Book which was spoken of when she married the nice man who was full of the fruit she wanted to taste. She cried out to the Author of the Book, “If You are real, show me.” Her eyes fell onto a page which read. “Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.”

Suddenly, her cheeks were wet and her heart was flooded with hope she had never felt before. Her life was soon filled with joy unspeakable. The Prince of Peace, named Jesus, filled her new heart and the barren places of her soul. Fallow ground was broken and like a seed planted in fertile soil, faith sprung up along with the other sweet fruits of the precious Spirit. Fear was cast down and instead of pleasing people, she began to please Him who died in her place.

And so the story continues. It is being lived out by me, Angie. This restored life perseveres, growing in grace and nurturing a new generation of children who God so generously bestowed in our care. Praise God from whom all blessings flow!

GGM is giving this lovely Angel charm to one special reader, USA only please, when you blog about this article and bring the link back to us here. Simply paste the link into your post below. Be sure youleave a link where you or your mom can be contacted.

Each month we will share a salvation story from one of our authors. We would like for you to participate and share the day your relationship began with Jesus. If you'd like to submit your salvation story, contact our Editor today and let her know.

Cloak and Dagger - What Do You Think?



Something I have recently come to realize is that our thought life is very important. Not only is it important to take our thoughts into subjection, but it is also very important to God what we think.
What we think and say is what comes out of our hearts. Matthew 15:18 says, "But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart;" (KJV)
Proverbs 23:7 says "For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he:" (KJV)

What I think and say reflects what is in my heart. Sometimes I say mean and horrible things, and that reflects the sin in my heart. Only Jesus can heal that and take it away. That is why we, as Believers, are to "Bring into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;"-2 Corinthians 10:5b. (KJV)

We are to take all our thoughts captive to Christ in obedience. If we are to take all our thoughts captive to Christ, then we must also take our hearts to Him too. If our hearts are not right, then our thoughts will not be right.
If we are thinking evil, wrong, or sinful things and think that no one knows about them and its ok, we are very wrong. Job 21:27 says, "Behold, I know your thoughts, and the devices which ye wrongfully imagine against me." (KJV)

There is more than one verse that speaks about how evil and deceitful our thoughts can be if we are not walking in the ways of the Lord. Proverbs 12:5a says, "The thoughts of the righteous are right: but the counsels of the wicked are deceit." (KJV)

God knows everything that runs through our heads. Even those thoughts that we don't want anyone to hear or see. God sees them. We should want Him to know our thoughts. Psalm 139:23 says, "Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts:" (KJV)

It is good to have God search our mind and heart, so He knows our thoughts. He needs to be able to know them, so He can show us what is wrong in our lives.

David taught Solomon the importance of knowing and understanding that your heart is connected to your mind and thoughts: 1 Chronicles 28:9 "And thou, Solomon my son, know thou the God of thy father, and serve him with a perfect heart and with a willing mind: for the LORD searcheth all hearts, and understandeth all the imaginations of the thoughts: if thou seek him, he will be found of thee; but if thou forsake him, he will cast thee off for ever." (KJV)

He also taught him what would happen if we didn't seek Him in our thoughts. God understands our thoughts and why we are having them. Psalm 94:11 "The LORD knoweth the thoughts of man, that they are vain." (KJV)

He knows that not every thought we have is good. We are human, and while that is just an excuse, we are covered by the grace of Jesus. We can overcome our thought life and take the control away from our flesh and give it to the Lord.

God knows everything about us, yes we all know that. We must, however, remember that He really does understand our thoughts even when we don't know they are thoughts. Psalm 139:2 "Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising, thou understandest my thought afar off." (KJV)

We, as Believers, should always make sure our thoughts are pure and righteous, and a lot of times that is hard. But we must not let those impure and unrighteous thoughts take over. We need to not think of idle things that will cause us or others to sin. We should love the Lord's laws and despise our idle thoughts. Psalm 119:113 "I hate vain thoughts: but thy law do I love." (KJV)

We should love God's laws and practice them daily. A love of the law will help us defeat our flesh and take back our thoughts.
God's Word, the Bible, is the best tool we can use to take our sinful thought life back into submission of our spirits. We must use it to keep our minds and hearts pure. Hebrews 4:12 has a great verse that tells us how we can do that: "For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart." (KJV)

The intents of our heart is what we should worry about. Our thoughts are a heart issue. If our hearts are not right, then we need to give them whole-heartedly over to the One who specializes in hearts: Jesus.

He loves us no matter what and will do what He can and what we allow Him to do in our hearts, thoughts, and lives. When we surrender everything to Him, we will not have those "idle thoughts" that plague us and turn us away from Jesus and His righteousness.

Girls, I struggle DAILY with my thought life. It is very hard to bring under submission. But with Jesus' help I am getting it to where it should be. It can be done. If we bring every thought to Jesus and let Him take every thought over, then we will keep ourselves pure and will have thoughts that are holy in His sight.

Be encouraged. Get the Word into your heart. Take every thought to Christ. Then you will have pure thoughts that you need not be ashamed of.

Thursday, January 31, 2008

Sharing the Love of Jesus Through Friendship

I visit a lot of blogs, and I often find very good Biblically-grounded bloggers who blog to bring glory to the Lord. You can scroll down the first page of a blog and find many inspirational and God-honouring "thinker posts". Sometimes you only get to know them through their "thinker posts", and hardly ever through their accounts of their daily life or activities. They show you who they are in Christ and what they think about life; and sometimes you know them through Christ and what they believe through the way the live.I enjoy reading about both, and I, myself, enjoy writing both "thinker posts" as well as "daily doin's".

I have a lot of strong beliefs and convictions on many Biblical topics and I love sharing my faith, but I don't often post "thinker posts". When I write up a thinker post I usually have some kind of inspiration, whether it be because I read a certain verse in the Bible that I wanted to share or maybe I was having a spiritual problem, or a hard situation that brought me to a train of thought. Or sometimes I feel too strongly about them and I decide not approach them directly.

However, whether I blog thinker posts or not, doesn't prohibit my witnessing and being a light for Jesus. Through the recordings of my daily life and projects I can show how to live as a Godly young lady and how to serve my family and the Lord whole-heartedly.

I believe that before you can hand anyone the Word of God, you must first establish a trusting friendship. I do not consider it polite or respectful to just meet someone and start telling them about Scripture. I don't want to seem "holier-than-thou" or isolate them. When a beggar comes to your door asking for bread, you don't hand him the Bible. First you must give him bread, clothe him, and care for him. Love him and show him who Jesus is. This "beggar" doesn't have to be someone on the street. It could be a blogger you meet online. Someone who is starving for a friend. A good friend. Someone who needs love and care.

Jesus did not always just start telling them they were sinners. He didn't hang out with the rich men and as he walked by a beggar tell him he needed to repent. No, he took the time to grow relationships and loved those who he taught. It reminds me a song we used to sing all the time…


This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine,

This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine,

This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine

Let it shine, Let it shine, Let it shine.

When I was 6 years-old and graduated from "church kindergarten" I won the hospitality award, because I was the sort of girl to walk up to the new shy kid and befriend them. Then when I was 8 years-old I met Jay & Jan Bell who were missionaries to the stricken country of Cambodia, and so I decided that when I grew up I was going to be a missionary to Cambodia as well. I wrote a letter to Mr. Bell, explaining my intentions of one day joining him in missions work. I remember that evening's church service, Mr. Bell was speaking and read my letter aloud to the entire church - wow, embarrassing.

The years following that night I studied the country of Cambodia. I borrowed a lot of library books on the culture. We even participated in a unit study on Cambodia at a homeschool convention. We have a picture of me, as a 10 year-old, with a big woven hat and a Cambodian-handmade scarf covering nearly my entire face, at the booth where we displayed our unit study. I truly felt the calling to be a witness for Jesus as a missionary to Cambodia. I also collected money for Mr. Bell's ministry as well as Operation Christmas Child. I wanted to help and make a difference for Jesus Christ.

I also knew another missionary, Mr. Max Hatfield, who created a ministry called Friendship International. His ministry is in Russia and Turkey where they practice friendship evangelism. His befriends people, he shares his life with them, before ever introducing them to Christ or throwing the Word at them. Alot of times people don't want to be preached at we don't want to make the Word a bad taste in their mouth. They don't want you to tell them they're sinners, so instead be a witness to them by being a friend. Show them the same love that Jesus showed Matthew when he was a tax-collector.

Now, I feel the calling to be a witness to young ladies, who don't know what to believe about the woman's role in this day and age. I want to show all who come to my blog that I want to follow the Bible, without regard for myself. I want to serve my family and eventually be a helpmeet for my future husband. I want to shine a bright light on the Biblical family. I want people to come to my blog and see Jesus in me, through my life and my beliefs. I want them to read through my blog, whether I have "thinker posts" or not, and see Him in my life.

You don't have to write up a bunch of scripture in a "thinker post" to tell people that Jesus loves them. Just be the person who He created you to be and He will shine through you…. even in your willingness to take down fifty-gallons of water down to the barn because everyone else is sick…. to show them that you can lay down your life for others because He laid down his life for you.

John 13:34-36, "A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another." (KJV)

John 13:34, "A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another." (KJV)

Romans 12:10, "Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;" (KJV)

The Bible is full of verses about LOVING ONE ANOTHER, so be a witness for Him, be a friend.

What Is A Friend?



What is a friend?? Over my short life span, I have had ONE good friend that has stayed by me since we met. Katie and I met in 4th grade and have been friends ever since. We used to do everything together. I would go to her house and stay and swim, and she would come to mine and like being on the farm.



Over the years, we both left the church we had met at, so we didn’t see each other as often as we would have liked. Since Katie went to public school, during the school year we saw each other even less.

We don’t talk to each other every day or every week and sometimes not every month. But I know that if I needed something, I could call her and vice versa. I can count on her to be there if I need her, and she I.

She is a real friend. Even when we don’t talk for awhile, we know that we are friends, and it will always be that way. We have a great and true relationship. If I don’t hear from her, I don’t wonder if she is mad at me. There is no doubt between us. If there was something wrong she would say it.



Now on the other side of the coin, I have had friends that were only lukewarm friends. They were friends to my face, but when we weren’t together, or when I stopped seeing them, I got no phone calls, no emails, no nothing. Even though I called and emailed them.

I even went to see a girlfriend once after she had had surgery. When I was not invited to one of their weddings, I was so very hurt that I did not get an invitation to that wedding, because I had been one of the first to know about it. The sister talked to me about it, and when the wedding time came I received nothing. I stopped seeing them; in their eyes I ceased to exist. I was different than them, so they didn’t really care to be with me. I had actually thought that they were my friends.

I found out that they weren’t. It was a hard lesson. It hurt me. Since moving to where I live, I have met people I thought cared about our family and I, but come to find out that when the rubber met the road, they were not who they portrayed themselves to be. They were not our friends. They chose to be popular, rather than standing up for what was right.




So what is a friend?? The only true friend that we can look to as an example is Jesus. While writing this article, I couldn’t help but think of one of my favorite hymns, “What a Friend We have in Jesus”. It means so much just to know that I have someone who will bear all my sins and griefs.

It is a privilege to carry them all to Him. Jesus is the best friend you can ask for.
John 15:13 says, "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man laydown his life for his friends." (KJV)

Jesus did that for us. He laid His precious life down as payment for our sin.

Friends, true ones, love you through everything, with everything and in everything. Friends are important. My best friend is my Sister, Jocelyn. Where can you have a closer friendship with someone than your sister? Jocelyn and I spend just about all of our time together. We can tell each other anything and everything. She loves me, and I love her.

If you have a sister who is close to your age, become best friends with her. You will always have your sister. One of my favorite times I have with Jocelyn is when it is freezing outside and in our room at night, and we share a bed and snuggle up close to keep other warm. We tell each other our thoughts on events that happened that day, or our dreams of the future, or of things we want to change or were upset about. We can count on each other to understand our meaning and lift us up in prayer.

Aside from my friendship with my sister, I have also been blessed with true friends from blogging. Since blogging I have met many friends who are like-minded. They are kindred spirits. We agree on a lot of subjects, but not all. Which is good because we can then talk, not argue, about the differences and learn something from each other. I am so happy that God brought this opportunity for me to have these friendships I hope to keep throughout my life. They are genuine.

A part of friendship we need to always keep in mind is that if you are offended, that you tell the person. That you don't just ignore them or not tell them. We need to talk to each other about it. We need to not have division in the body of Christ and that includes friendships.

True and Kindred friends are a rare thing nowadays. God places people in our lives for a reason. We need to make sure that we do everything in our power to be the image of Christ to all, even Christians.
Here is a little piece about friendship:




Friends
There are no coincidences. There is a reason for everything.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.


Like Proverbs 18:24 says, "A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother." (KJV) In order to have friends, you must be a friend first.



And now for a giveaway! GGM has a pretty pink ball point pen from Claire's to give away to one reader, USA only please, when you share this link on your blog. Invite your friends so that they may have a chance to win as well. You can use your new pen to write a lovely letter to a true friend. Be sure to have your parents permission if you are under 18 and leave a link where you or your mom can be contacted. Let us know once you have the link posted and we'll add you to the entry list.

Thorns and Roses "If I just had the money."


Don't we often all find ourselves saying "if only I had the money then..."? I know I do. Not even wishing I had money to spend on myself, but others. The idea that money equals happiness is a lie the world will tell you. Far too much merit is put into money and what it can give you.

The world will tell you that if you have money or material items you will be happy. That you'll never be in want and you'll have an easy life, but is that really the truth? No, it is a lie. We as Christians should know and apply what Jesus said in Matthew 6: 19-21. He spoke very clearly on treasures on earth and treasures in heaven, and the things of this world will pass away.

Matthew 6:19-21

"Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.
" (KJV)


In this world we have one purpose and that is to bring glory to God's kingdom. We should not be worried about what we have in this life. We should be content with what He gives us in this life, and not lay up treasures here on earth. We must be careful not to let money or anything materialistic become a focus or a worry to us or a source of discontentment.

The Bible says in


Matthew 6: 24, "No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon." (KJV)
The Lord has been faithful to His people throughout the ages of this world. He has always taken care of them, and He always will. If we are in need of something do not rely on money, but rely on the Lord. Pray and ask him humbly what you need. Do not be deceived into thinking that money equals happiness. It does not. It may give you pleasure for a short while, but what is that compared to eternity?

Matthew 6: 32-33, "(For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things. But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. "
(KJV)

Our reward and treasures will be in heaven and they will be far greater than anything we will ever have here. Seek Ye first the Kingdom of God, not the things of this world for they shall pass away.

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

The Faith Factor





Have you ever wanted to share your faith with a friend or loved one? I sometimes have gotten nervous when trying to explain salvation to another person.



In the upcoming weeks and months we'll be learning fun and creative ways to share your faith with others, but before we go any further it is very important that you know that you have a personal relationship with Jesus yourself. Sisterlisa wrote this delicious message that she entitled, "The M&M Gospel" Be sure to read to the end, for there is a giveaway in this message! If you have a fun way to share your faith with others and would like to have it published with GGM, please contact our Editor for further details.






As I was sitting on the swing at the park one sunny afternoon, my friend walked up and asked me to hold out my hand. Unsure of what she was going to do, I resisted. "It's ok, I have something for you," she said. I slowly put out my hand and I saw a brown bag dump into my hand and several colorful candies tumbled into my palm. They were small candy coated chocolates called, M&M's.





There's so much I would like to tell you about M&M's and something in particular that their company may not even know about. First of all, America's favorite little candies have a history behind the sweetening craze. We all like to hear the story about how we came into this world and their story is so much fun! Another interesting tid bit of information is that in 2004 the M&M's lost their color for a while causing all the M&M's to be Black and White!


Once you've read the history of the M&M, you can now become one! Now don't get too wild and crazy, but be sure to have a lot of fun! Now that you have created yourself into a virtual M&M, you can now customize your own bag of M&M's. Be sure to get your parents permission before ordering, but just for fun you can play with their interactive M&M creator. They're especially fun for sending out a unique message to a loved one. (Min. ordering is 4 bags at $11.99 per bag.) They're a bit pricey, but could prove to be a valuable way to show someone how much you care.



Next comes the part I've been hungering to tell you! The M&M's tell a wonderful story by their colors!


The Dark Chocolate M&M: There's a darkness in this world that we all battle from day to day. This battle is the war between our flesh and our spirit and that entity we fight with is called sin. Sin is a dark nature within us that we cannot escape on our own. "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God." Dark chocolate is bittersweet and sin has it's pleasure for a season, but is not profitable for our relationship with Jesus. In fact, we cannot get to heaven on our own, because of sin.


The Yellow M&M: The yellow M&M reminds me of Heaven for a couple of reasons. The first reason is that the streets of heaven are made of pure gold. The second reason is that the Son of God sits at the right hand of the Father and loves us very much! Jesus wants us to be in Heaven with all His heart, but sin is not allowed in Heaven. God has always known that we sin, but makes Him sad because He knows sin cannot enter His heavenly home. Then Jesus raised his hands and said, "I'll go Father. I'll go to earth and teach the people how they CAN know for sure they can get to heaven to be with you." The Father and Son both know that there is a payment for sin and that payment must be fulfilled. Someone must pay that sin debt, but it has to be someone that has never sinned. That's when Jesus came to earth in the form of a man and lived a perfect life.



The Red M&M: After Jesus was grown and had begun his ministry here on earth, He knew the time was nearing that the sin debt would need to be paid for. Many people did not believe that He is the Son of God, as a matter of fact, they thought He was lying to them when He told them that "Whosoever believeth in me shall not perish, but have everlasting life and that no man cometh unto the father but by me." The people did not believe him and the penalty was death. Jesus knew this was going to be his fate one morning, but he willingly went forward, recalling His words to the Father, that He would volunteer to pay the sin debt so that all mankind could be in heaven one day. Jesus was lead to Calvary, after being beaten so severely that people could not even tell that he was a man. On the cross of Calvary that day, Jesus stretched out his arms and died for you and for me. His shed blood was the sacrifice needed for our sins to be forgiven.




The White M&M: Yes there IS a white M&M, it's just not in the classic bag you see in stores today, but rather through the customized option on their site and in some candy stores throughout America's malls. The White M&M brings me great joy, for it is the white that indicates the washing of our sins. Jesus's blood washed us white as snow, so that our sin is not seen by the Father anymore. It's the proof that we are forgiven for our sin nature and our ticket to enter the pearly gates of Heaven.


One thing I could never understand is that the old motto of the M&M's candies is, "They melt in your mouth, not in your hand." Yet, my M&M's always left a smudge of chocolate on my hands. My mom could always tell if I had gotten into the M&M bags. Although we are forgiven by the Father, we still sin each and every day. After all, we're not perfect and we will always make mistakes. When we sin it does leave it's mark on us, whether it be through the tone of our voice, the expressions on our faces, and even the images within our own minds. That daily sin will not cause us to lose our home in heaven, but it will cause us to have a difficult time communicating with the Savoir. His Holy Spirit resides in the hearts of all those who have trusted in His death as the payment for their sin. The Holy Spirit wants to talk to us every day and express God's love and mercy to us through various ways. When we live in sin, making no effort to communicate with the Father, it makes it difficult for us to hear Him speaking to us.


The Green M&M: It's very important to keep your hands clean. Anytime that chocolate smudges onto your hands, wash it off right away. We do this by GOing to the Lord and confessing our sin and apologizing to God right away. If we go any length of time without saying we're sorry for our daily mistakes, it leaves chocolate fingerprints on everything we touch.


If you have never believed in the Lord with your heart and you'd like to today, just tell Him. Just talk to God like you would talk to a friend or your mom. Tell Him you believe He is real and that He died for you. Admit you aren't perfect and that you know you can't get to heaven on your own because of your sin. Trust that He will say yes, because His very own Word, the Bible says, "For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved."


Once you have believed in Him with your heart and have communicated to Him that you want him to save you from sin and let you in heaven, He will ALWAYS be with you! You will still make mistakes every day, but God has forgiven you. Just remember the Green M&M telling you to GO to the Father and say you're sorry when you do make mistakes. His love and mercy is never ending!

Now for the giveaway! We are giving away 5 customized packs of Salvation M&M's accompanied by mini versions of this lesson for one reader to share with 5 people she knows needs to hear the gospel message. She will also receive this lesson printed in full color on classic white cardstock, perfect for framing.


Simply blog about this article and let us know you've shared The M&M Gospel message LINK with your readers and you'll be entered for this drawing! Our winner will be announced February 15th!


The M&M Gospel Lesson was written by Sisterlisa through the guidance of the Sweet Holy Spirit. All rights belong to Him, but if you'd like to download the free pdf file here, to remember it for your Faith Sharing opportunities, you may do so. Any print version of The M&M Gospel message or digital reproduction should credit the Holy Spirit and Growing in Grace Magazine.

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Pet of the Month February 2008 "Quaker"







My pet’s name is Quaker. He is a male kitten. We got him in November 2007. He likes digging in our trashcan, chasing our other cat, Minga, sleeping in warm and cozy spots, and purring. My dad got him for my mom and me for an early Christmas gift. He has little curly hairs all over his neck. He is the most silky cat that we have ever had. This photo is of me holding Quaker. ~Morgan

Quaker lives with his best friend, Morgan, who is nine years old, in the fourth grade, and has her own little corner of the world at Mees-Alees. She loves her brother Kaden, and her mommy is her teacher.



You can submit your pet for our Pet of the Month article each month. Simply follow these guidelines and send in your submission to our photo department subject line: Pets

Submission Guidelines:
-Send in a picture of your pet, please do not edit the photo or resize it. We will do any editing that may be needed.-Photos of inappropriate nature will be denied.
-If your photo includes a picture of yourself, we will need to contact your parent for permission. Please send their e-mail address in with your request. (This applies to girls under 18)

-Tell us a little about your pet and what makes them special to you. Maximum of 500 words.

-Your pet may be of any species. (Ex; cat, dog, pony, chicken, etc.)

-You may enter no more than 2 pets per month.

-All girls may enter, no age limit.


A Matter of Life and Death




A young lady arrived in Sunday School a few minutes early in hopes of finding an empty seat next to her friend. She truly wanted to sit with her and enjoy the lesson side by side. Upon entering the room, as she slowly peered over the rows she did indeed find her friend's Bible and purse placed on a chair next to an empty seat. She excitedly placed her own sparkling blue covered Bible and her handbag in the front row right alongside her friend's chair. In the second row just behind them sat a few other girls she knew and she happily greeted them with a friendly hello.


A few moments later, her friend came strolling by, only she did not look too cheerful. She glared at the blue Bible accompanied by the handbag and snapped at the young girl, "What is YOUR stuff doing there? I was saving that seat for someone else!"

Confused and with dashed hopes the young girl frowned and cautiously extended her sincerest apology, "I am so sorry, I just wanted to sit with you. I didn't know you were saving the seat for anyone. There wasn't anything on the chair and I was so happy to be able to find a chair next to you." The young girl's sincere apology made no difference to the angry friend as she replied with haste, "Well SOMEONE should have TOLD you!"

She turned to the row of girls behind her and snapped, "You should have told her!" Much to their amazement they matter of factly responded with the only truth they knew as they unanimously said, "We didn't know you were saving the seat."

Meanwhile a few other girls entered the room and the perturbed friend critically expressed to them in that same harsh voice, "You'll HAVE to sit by her!" As she rolled her eyes and let our a deep sigh, one of the girls did sit by the young girl and began a pleasant conversation, making it obvious that she paid no attention to this angry female.

As the young girl went home after church to discuss this with her mother, her heart was heavy with pain and confusion. Her once gleeful countenance had been stained with utter devistation. She felt as though her heart would die.



You may have heard it said before, "It's a matter of life and death." That's exactly what happens to the spirit when we wield our untamed tongue on of the ear and soul of a fellow human being. Be cautious of your tongue ladies, for you never know how damaging your words can be.

Proverbs 18:21, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." (KJV)

Monday, January 28, 2008

A 'Love'ly Heritage


Some History of Valentine's Day

Many have argued the exact origin of Valentines’ Day and how it came to be. Some believe that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men. Valentine, realizing the unfairness of the law, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers, in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.

Other stories conclude that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons, where they were often beaten and tortured. That would be pretty interesting, considering that when I think of the word ‘priest’ I think of the Catholic Church. Therefore, if he did help the Christians escape persecution, which would have been completely amazing.

According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl, who may have been his jailor's daughter, who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine’.

One very historic thing has taken place on Valentine's Day, was the St. Valentine's Day Massacre. Al Capone planned the death of Bugs Moran, who was the current leader of the rival North Side Gang. In February, Capone spies discover that Moran is planning an important meeting, which just happened to be on Valentine's Day, at a garage that the North Side Gang uses as a liquor depot. In 1929, Capone's hit team lies in wait, armed with their most awesome weapon, the Thompson submachine gun (the Tommy gun). Seven of Moran's gangsters go into the garage; two decoy police cars pull up with Capone's men disguised as cops. They went into the garage, and told Moran's men to put down their weapons. When they did, Capone's Tommy guns erupt. Within ten seconds the men are lifeless on the floor. Not at all what God would want for us.

Some other interesting facts about Valentine's Day include the following:

- 188 million Valentine's Day cards are exchanged annually
- The per capita consumption of candy by Americans in 2005 was 25.7 pounds. Candy consumption has actually declined over the last few years; in 1997, each American gobbled or savored more than 27 pounds of candy a year.
- The combined wholesale value of domestically produced cut roses in 2005 for all operations with $100,000 or more in sales was $39 million.
- In February 2006, stores sold $2.6 billion worth of merchandise.

And some city names that sound lovely are:
Valentine, NE; Loveland, CO;
LovejoyGA; Lovelock, NE; Love Valley, NC
Lovelady, TX; Loves Park, IL
Loving County, TX; Lovington, NM
Loving, NM; Love County, OK
and Sacred Heart, MN.

I am so glad that we have the ability to develop our own history. Holidays are so materialistic and commercialized these days. The world uses Valentine's Day as such a sensual holiday today that the innocent part of it has seemed to have vanished.

If we had the opportunity to create such a grand history for the future generation of America, what would it be? What do you have planned for Valentine's Day? You don’t have to be married or be dating to give Valentines out to people. Give some to your family, your neighbors, or your friends.

Did you know that there are seventeen verses in the Bible that state the phrase ‘love the Lord’? Did you know that there are over 372 references to love in the Bible?

Keep in mind that Jesus is our best Valentine.

Sunday, January 27, 2008

Rachael - "Falling In Love"

We’ve had some stormy weather recently in California, but we were so blessed to have a break in the rain and had a bit of sunshine one afternoon. What a great opportunity to head out to Starbuck’s for a Tall Non-Fat Sugar free Cinnamon Dolce Latte and decided this might be a good time to call Rachael. Rachael happily agreed to meet with me for what became a wonderful afternoon.

We sat at a small table nearest the door with the warm sunshine beaming through the pane on our faces. As I prepared myself with my pen and journal in hand, I knew this was going to be a good meeting of friends.

GGM: Hi Rachael, tell me a bit about your family.

R: Well, I’m the third born of four children and the only daughter. My parents are happily married and my mother has always been a keeper of the home. My dad is a deacon at our church and we serve in the ministry together in many ways. My oldest brother, David, is married and they have two children which I adore! My second brother is Joe and he is a fireman and my younger brother is Dan and he is a junior in high school. Growing up in a home with three brothers was different than many of my other friends and I was happy to get a sister-in-law.

GGM: In what ways does your family serve together in the ministry?

R: My dad is a bus driver for our church’s bus ministry and my brother, Daniel, and I volunteer together with him by bringing children to church every Sunday morning. My parents both volunteer together in the college Sunday school class which my brother, Joe, and I attend together. Our family all serves in the college ministry together with helping with all the activities. We also ‘adopted’ one of the sweet ‘Senior Saints’ of the church as a ‘grandma’ and include her in all our family gatherings.

GGM: Rachael, it sounds like you have a close family, but have you ever had rough times?

R: Oh yes, I think any family has it’s share of ups and downs, but our family is very close and no matter what kind of storm comes our way, we stand by each other’s side without wavering. I love my brothers very much, we’re best friends!



"I love my brothers very much!"





GGM: Rachael, you’re eighteen now and preparing for college correct? What are you hoping to achieve in college?

R: Yes, I have a strong desire to be a nurse.

GGM: Oh that’s wonderful Rachael, how old were you when you knew that was the direction in which you were heading?

R: Well, I volunteered as a candy striper at our local hospital for a few months one summer and while I was in the ninth grade I was going through some old boxes one day I found an old letter I had saved. It was a paper I wrote in the second grade to my teacher about being a nurse. When I found that letter, it was then that I knew. It was a confirmation to me that I was going to be a nurse. I have always been the kind of person that wanted to help people.



"It was a confirmation."




GGM: That’s great that you have a desire to help people, were there any people in your life that you feel greatly influenced you to help meet the needs of others?

R: (sigh) Yes, my parents love to help people. They often have families come to our home to minister to them and they have always had a heart to visit in the local nursing homes. My mother loves elderly people, and children, they tend to flock to her. She has a special way about her that touches their souls. My dad used to teach in Junior Church for the fourth through sixth graders and I enjoyed helping in his class. My parents have always volunteered for Junior Camp every summer as well. They have been a great example to me of reaching out to others that are in need. I don’t think I’ve ever heard my dad say, “No.” to someone.

GGM: How wonderful that your parents have been involved in your upbringing. Would you like to share with our readers about some special times you’ve had together with your parents?

R: (big smile) My mom and dad created a special event for me the night I was graduating from sixth grade. Part of this surprise was just as much for my dad as it was for me. My mom had planned a specific time for my dad and I just before we left the house. My mom and I had gone shopping to get a special dress for graduation and my dad had not yet seen it. It was so pretty. We got a long white dress with a sheer pinafore, which had rose petals in it. Mom had me get my hair done and she had my dad wait for me in the dining room. As I walked down the hallway to see him, his face lit up; and so did mine. My mom had arranged a white sheet around the back of the chair, draping from the ceiling down to the ground.



"I want to save my purity for marriage."



Dad asked me to sit down and he got down on one knee. He then told me how special I am to him and brought out a pretty ring and asked me if I would wear it as a symbol to the world that I want to save my purity for marriage.

Another time was when my mom took me on a special weekend getaway to a little hotel for girls. It was like a fairytale hotel and we had a wonderful time together. I’ll never forget that weekend.

GGM: Oh Rachael, it sounds like your parents love you very much. You said earlier that you want to be a nurse and I’m wondering what you think about having your own family one day. Your mom sounds like a wonderful example and I’ll bet you’ll be a good mom too.

R: I used to think that I wouldn’t have children, until I became an Auntie. I fell in love with my nephew and niece the days they were born. Now I do want to be a mom one day.

GGM: Have you had any experience with working with children?

R: Yes, I have volunteered in different children’s classes at church, tutored after school for younger children, and even helped in a daycare during the summer when I was younger. My employer taught me how to teach with a homeschool approach in that daycare. It was rewarding to see small children learn from me and see them understand what I was teaching. Each day we had times when we sat at the dining room table and taught workbook pages to keep their minds fresh over the summer. It was a lot of fun.

GGM: You mentioned that your mom has always been a keeper of the home; do you think you will follow in her footsteps when you have children?

R: Oh yes! I want to be able to be there for my children and I have no problem at all with being at home. I love being at home.

GGM: Well I’ll bet your parents have a great deal to do with that. What do you think inspires your family to reach out to others like they do?

R: It’s because of the Lord. His example to us in the Bible shows us that we should be reaching out to others.