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The Culture of Cults and Cult-Like Behaviour

April 1, 2009 by admin  
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In April of 1993 America witnessed a battle between Law Enforcement and the Davidian Branch Compound while innocent, but indoctrinated, women and children shook with fear over the battle that was raging over two distinctively different goals. David Koresh’s goal was to resist Law Enforcement under his belief that he was the Messiah and was willing to die for his ‘faith’. He also trained his captives to die for their ‘faith’ as well. Although Koresh indoctrinated his followers with his beliefs and ordered them to fire against the officers, he failed to teach them that Jesus himself said in

Matthew 22:21, “They say unto him, Caesar’s. Then saith he unto them, Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar’s; and unto God the things that are God’s.”

Romans 13:1-3, “Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God.Whosoever therefore resisteth the power, resisteth the ordinance of God: and they that resist shall receive to themselves damnation.For rulers are not a terror to good works, but to the evil. Wilt thou then not be afraid of the power? do that which is good, and thou shalt have praise of the same:

Many times when someone is new to a religious organization they are innocently ignorant of the philosophies being taught. It is important to search the scriptures and know for yourself what the Lord has taught. Even the noble men of Paul’s time were diligent in knowing what the Bible really said in

Acts 17:11, “These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.”

April is also the month in which Virginia Tech and Columbine both suffered from a gun battle that ended with many lives lost. Since the beginning of time Satan has had his talons deep into the lives of humans over his rage against God. His focus seems to have always been parents and young people, since the time of Cain and Abel, and their parents. If that ol’ enemy can’t get the parents to falter, he will seek the children as his victims. He is always at work against young people, and it is evident when we look at the world around us. When young people and their families won’t succumb to the world’s enticements the enemy uses religion to get them entangled in his plans so they will be distracted from the Lord Jesus Christ. He does this through the manipulation of false religions, also known as cults.

Cults are not only religious in nature, they also are found in a variety of other avenues. You can find cults within music, businesses, organizations, etc. The word cult comes from the word culture, an integrated pattern of human knowledge, belief, and behavior that depends upon the capacity for symbolic thought and social learning. It is a set of shared attitudes, values, goals, and practices that characterizes an institution, organization or group, yet in today’s society we see cults as dangerous breeding grounds intended for harm. Many times people who are involved in a cult are naïve to what is at the root of their group.

Some cults result in physical harm or death of themselves by suicide or by attacking others. Most cults result in isolation from family members and friends, and we must be cautious of modern cults that contain the Christian label.

A cult is a group or person who leads many people in a direction that is not honoring to a parent’s authority as well as the Lord Jesus Christ. One such cult that is not of a religious nature is that of musicians. When a young person has been hooked into a music group that would cause them to disobey their parents just to listen to their music or attend their concerts, it is considered a cult. Many parents remember when The Beatles craze hit American shores. Scores of teenagers were rebelling against their parental authority when they disobeyed their parents to loyally followed their group, began using drugs, and resisted Law Enforcement when they tried to control the crowds.

Another cult that is not of a religious nature is that of fantasy and science fiction. As early as the 1960’s people began testifying of alien abductions, just a few short years after the first Alien film, ’20 Million Miles to Earth’. An interesting fact to ponder is the fact that these testimonies of alien abductions describe them as being lizard-like in appearance and performing demonic ‘investigations’ of human sexual organs. Aliens became a hit in American culture and people created organized groups that followed the stars and NASA explorations diligently. When Steven Spielberg’s film ‘Close Encounters of The Third Kind’ hit the theaters, people saw a glimpse of what those testimonies must have been like. Those who were enticed to believe this science fiction phenomena as being real became consumed with seeking extra-terrestrial life outside of Earth. In doing so they became a cult, who ignorantly followed a dangerous occultic practice known among early Egyptians.

Many Christians are unaware of a cult that is an organized group which is portrayed as one that assists the community around them. This cult is known as Freemasonry, or The Masons. They appear to be a local group of men who meet weekly or monthly for fellowship and community efforts to help their neighbor. To most people they seem to be ‘Christian’ in nature as they allow their members to ‘pray’ in the meetings to their ‘God’. Women are not allowed in their lodge, nor are any atheists. They created a group that women can participate in called The Rainbow Girls and Job’s Daughters. They also created The Shriner’s Hospital that helps millions of handicapped children throughout our world. Just as with most cults, they seem to be harmless groups that claim to have a desire to ‘help their fellow man’. Upon further investigation of this cult The Masons, as with many others, you will find a deep-rooted demonic force that intends to destroy the person’s faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.

There will be many who do not believe what I am writing in this article, yet you owe it to yourself and your families to know what you believe and why you believe it. Some of the most popular, well known, and widely accepted cults are within churches that use mind control to bring their followers into mental and emotional bondage. It becomes so powerful that the followers lose the ability to think for themselves. This kind of mind control involves a severe social influence conditioning program which may include:

  • an exclusive system of authoritarian control,
  • manipulation,
  • a program of punishment and rewards,
  • information control,
  • fraud, and
  • coercion.

Depending on the number and intensity of undue influential tactics, and a person’s own naivety, one may experience:

  • a false personality change and
  • marked mental or emotional weakness,
  • compliance, and
  • servitude.

Cult-like leaders will keep a person:

  • so busy that they don’t have time for life outside of the cult.
  • Many times the leader or cult group will drive a wedge between the family unit by coercing them into separate activities and
  • drain them of energy so they are too tired to think about what is happening to them.

Here is a list of things to keep in mind in regards to religious cults:

  • Breaking down a person’s mind by mental abuse.
  • Putting a simple minded person in leadership positions. These people will blindly obey and follow their leader over what anyone else says and will demand loyalty even when the leader is wrong.
  • Control the person’s time and environment.
  • No outside recreation without the group.
  • They create a powerlessness in people.
  • As the group attacks the person’s worldview, it causes the person distress and inner confusion; yet they are not allowed to speak about this confusion or object to it – leadership suppresses questions and counters resistance.
  • Mind control increases as the people in the group are kept busier than usual in order to keep them under their control and too tired to think clearly.
  • Old healthy life patterns are not accepted and must suppress them.
  • Members get positive feedback for conforming to the group’s beliefs and behaviors and negative feedback for old beliefs and behavior.
  • Good behavior, demonstrating an understanding and acceptance of the group’s beliefs, and compliance are rewarded while questioning, expressing doubts or criticizing are met with disapproval, redress and possible rejection. If one expresses a question, he or she is made to feel that there is something inherently disordered about them to be questioning.
  • The only feedback members get is from the group; they become totally dependent upon the rewards given by those who control the environment. Striving to perform in order to get these rewards or positive feedback shows the dependency the person has been created to expect. When the rewards cease to be given, the person becomes hurt, confused, or disgruntled.
  • Put forth a closed system of logic and an authoritarian structure that allows no feedback and refuses to be corrected except by leadership approval or executive order.
  • Members are not allowed to question their leaders.The follower is treated as if they are in defiance and the leadership is not to be questioned and trusted to make the right decision. If their judgment is questioned the follower is either ignored, rebuked, or quieted through various forms of manipulation or blackmail. Sometimes their attention is redirected into another direction such as a new special form of leadership created for them in order to keep them busy.
  • Flattery is used to puff up the follower in order to make them feel accepted and valued. Most times the new, simple minded, or those who are catching on to what is happening are the most likely to become flattered. Psalm 12:3, “The LORD shall cut off all flattering lips, and the tongue that speaketh proud things:” and 1 Thessalonians 2:5, “For neither at any time used we flattering words, as ye know, nor a cloke of covetousness; God is witness:”
  • Spying on other members and asking for reports on their lives.
  • Manipulation of a followers emotions. Downplaying their feelings as unimportant or in error.
  • Faults are never the leaders fault.
  • Leadership is backed even when in the wrong and often times covered up. When a follower catches on and tries to question or expose the wrong doing the leader will often rebuke the follower of being critical or defying leadership.
  • Emphasizing irrational fears about ever leaving the group or even questioning the leader’s authority. The person under mind control cannot visualize a positive, fulfilled future without being in the group. Such as telling testimonies of people who left and suffered from death or illness and that is told to be their punishment or consequences.
  • Defying unwritten rules are considered rebellious and often rebuke is given to the follower.
  • Instant friendships. True friendships develop over time. Flattery such as “my dear friend” and they really don’t know each other very well at all.
  • A cult leader will try to persuade you to reduce or eliminate altogether outside friendships and even family.
  • Any information that could lead followers to the clear understanding that their teaching is wrong is destroyed or followers are told that to read it is considered critical and punishable by authority through public character assassination.
  • Keeping the members so busy that they don’t have time to do anything other than support their groups cause. This kind of busyness causes families to be divided and not able to have adequate time together at home.
  • Followers are sometimes reprimanded for not participating in every meeting or activity or told their loyalty is being questioned.
  • Leaders often times discourage parents from believing what their children report to them.
  • Followers are told to always side with leadership even if they are wrong.

Some things to keep in mind are:

  1. It’s important for a follower to be able to have the freedom to research about the group without the group leading their research.
  2. If the follower has been told to refrain from researching about them, then you may want to go ahead and do so.
  3. An honest group will not be opposed to a follower reading critical information about them.
  4. If the group has nothing to hide then they will not mind you seeking outside information.
  5. There is no perfect group, yet anything negative a former member may say should be willingly discussed by your leader. If the situation is covered up or ignored then be cautious in dealing with this group.
  6. A real honest leader will openly discuss any concerns you have about the group with humility. They will have nothing to fear by you asking.

So how can you protect yourself from becoming involved in a cult?

  • Know the Bible.
  • Question and compare the teaching to the Scriptures.
  • Cults who claim to believe in the Bible, but use alternative sources for doctrinal teaching are dangerous. Be sure all the teaching and practices are in agreement with the Scriptures.
  • Keep in mind that although Jesus taught that we are to abstain from all appearance of evil, we are to share the gospel, even with your own family. He never said to isolate yourself from family members who don’t believe the same as you.
  • If you believe you are in a cult and are just realizing it, there is help for you.


2 Peter 2:1-3, “ 1But there were false prophets also among the people, even as there shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon themselves swift destruction. 2And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of. 3And through covetousness shall they with feigned words make merchandise of you: whose judgment now of a long time lingereth not, and their damnation slumbereth not.”
Galatians 1:6-9, “ 6I marvel that ye are so soon removed from him that called you into the grace of Christ unto another gospel: 7Which is not another; but there be some that trouble you, and would pervert the gospel of Christ. 8But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed. 9As we said before, so say I now again, if any man preach any other gospel unto you than that ye have received, let him be accursed.”
John 14:6, “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.”
Romans 6:23, “For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”

The Lord Jesus Christ would not want you to participate in a cult. His expressed desire as put forth in scripture is to freely choose Him as your Saviour. What kind of relationship would he have with you if you felt forced to love him? Proverbs 8:17, “I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me.”

The Lord Jesus wants us to live in freedom. 2 Corinthians 3:17, “Now the Lord is that Spirit: and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty. “ Galatians 5:1, “Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.”

He is interested in your willing desire to help others come to know him. 2 Peter 3:9, “The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.”

God doesn’t want you to give begrudgingly through coercion. 2 Corinthians 9:7, “Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver.”

The Lord Jesus wants you to be free from the cult. 2 Corinthians 6:17, “Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.”

Your best defense in escaping a cult is to find help. Breaking free from mind control is not an easy task all on your own. Some people have broken free from that bondage by weaning themselves away from the group a little at a time, while some seek outside help, break free immediately, and move away. Whatever the case may be with you, firm support is needed as is a strong relationship with the Lord and a working knowledge of the scriptures. If you feel your knowledge of the scriptures is not strong, find someone who is that is able to help you.

Sisterlisa is the owner and Editor-in-Chief of Growing in Grace Magazine and owner of AGMinistries, a devotion blog for women. She is married and homeschools her four children while remaining active in community service and serves in the deaf ministry at her church.

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17 Responses to “The Culture of Cults and Cult-Like Behaviour”
  1. Wendy J. Duncan says:

    In Margaret Singer’s book, Cults in Our Midst, she wrote: “The issues they (cults) represent are basic to our society, to our understanding of each other and to our accepting our vulnerabilities and the potential for abuse within our world.”

    It took me awhile to acknowledge that I had been a member of a Bible-based cult. I was a seminary graduate from a conservative theological seminary, a licensed social worker, and had many years of experience in the mental health field. I should have been the last person to join a cult!

    Thank you for posting this information about cults. The largest number of cults in our society today is Bible-based cults. It is so important that we teach the church and especially our young people, the other signs of a cult, as well as how they recruit and why they appeal to individuals.

    Wendy J. Duncan
    Author: I Can’t Hear God Anymore: Life in a Dallas Cult
    Website: http://www.dallascult.com

  2. Miss Charlene says:

    I bookmarked this and will share it too! Great article!!

  3. Beth says:

    May I say that the information on the Masons is not entirely correct. My Grandfather was a Mason ( I say was because he is deceased). Job’s Daughters is for pre-teen to teenage aged girls. Women are in the group of Eastern Star. I myself have been in the lodge as has been my Grandmother, so it’s not “no women allowed”. Am I a member: nope, I don’t the time and I’m honestly not interested.

  4. Growing In Grace Magazine says:

    Beth, thank you for your comment. A very dear friend of mine was raised in Job’s Daughters and her father was a ‘Worshipful Master’. Her testimony is astonishing! I apologize for the misinformation about The Eastern Star. The Masons site that speaks of their rules had stated no women allowed. I implore you to read this website to help you better understand what that group is about. Ephesians 5:11 From the depths of my heart I urge you to look deeper into what you are being led into.

  5. Growing In Grace Magazine says:

    Wendy, thank you for your comment. There are some secular counselors who would say Christianity is considered a cult, yet my Lord and Saviour would not want me to isolate or be forced into anything. I suppose it’s how the people are lead by their minister. I work in a faith based ministry that sends ut to different churches to present our ministry to their congregations. Most churches seem innocent at the surface, but any lengthy stay and you begin to see things that become disturbing.

    The think the most disturbing is the mind control without documentation of such rules. Let me explain. There are some leaders who teach doctrine that is not doctrine. They do so by making statements that create an overall doctrine that is not found anywhere in their ‘Bible’ or other manuscripts. It’s a social conditioning that coerces people into staying in the group and/or giving obscene amounts of money. The list goes on and on.

    I keep coming back to the verses I shared above. Jesus wants us to be free to love and serve him, not coerced. When Paul spoke to King Agrippa, he simply told his testimony and he said ‘Paul you almost persuade me to become a Christian’. Paul did not push any further than simply sharing about the Lord and what he has done in his life. He tried to get King Agrippa to understand about his decision to follow Christ from a very pure standpoint. He did not bully him or coerce him with manipulation.

  6. Growing In Grace Magazine says:

    Thank you Charlene. It was a difficult article to write. It won’t be received by many people, yet we must open our eyes to what is before us and be wise.

  7. Wendy J.Duncan says:

    When I was in seminary I took a course on cults and the emphasis was on the teachings and doctrines of the various cults. Before joining the Bible-based cult I was involved with for seven years, I did my research. I reviewed their doctrinal statement and it could have passed for any mainstream Christian group. What I know now is that any group or “church” can copy a doctrinal statement, but it is their practices that are more telling than their doctrine.

    Cult structure is hierarchical, authoritarian, and centered around a charismatic leader. The charismatic quality is how the cult leader is able to arouse such extraordinary devotion and trust from his followers. As I mentioned in a previous post, I think it is important that we teach the church and especially our young people, the other signs of a cult, as well as how they recruit and why they appeal to individuals. Thank you for providing information about cults.

    Wendy Duncan
    Author: I Can’t Hear God Anymore: Life in a Dallas Cult
    http://www.dallascult.com

  8. Growing In Grace Magazine says:

    I agree Wendy. I think that what I am finding is that modern church cults are not limited to denomination, and their practices are not written in document form, but rather taught by their philosophies and verbal comments. The social coercion that manipulates their emotions and behaviour. And just because one specific church of one denomination does things in a cult-like manner does not mean all of them do. I understand that there are some widely known denominations that are all cults, but I see this type of behaviour in some churches while I don’t’ see it it others of the same denomination.

    What boggles my mind is how those leaders become that way. What is it in their mind or personality that causes them to go over the line? The abuse of power becomes obvious to some, but not all.

    Sometimes a person won’t even notice it until they step back a bit from the social structure of the church. Members need to be able to think freely without total dependence on that leader.

  9. Martha says:

    Educating and fascinating! This definitely brought “Battlefield Earth” to mind and how Scientology is deprived from the movie (originally a book). It amazes me how so many people fall under the brainwashing of most cults. Which is why we need to read the Bible and rely on GOD for the complete truth.

    Thank you for an amazing message!

  10. Wendy J. Duncan says:

    My husband and I facilitate a support group for former members of cultic or spiritually abusive groups. I am constantly amazed at how similar the leaders of these groups are. We jokingly say that all the cult leaders go to the same cult leadership school. Most of them would probably be diagnosable as narcissistic personality disorder or antisocial personality disorder (or Cluster B traits).

  11. Miss Lucy A. says:

    This is a very informative article! Thank you for taking the time to write it, I really did learn a lot from it.

    I want to point out one error you made though. You say the origin of the word “cult” is from “culture” but this is not correct. The word cult comes from a French word, culte, which word in turn comes from the Latin “cultus.” The word cultus means “to worship.”

    In the sort of cults you are talking about, of course, the worship focuses on a false idol, and not the One True God, which is why they are so evil and dangerous.

    Thank you again for this very informative article!

    In Christ,
    Lucy A.

  12. Page says:

    This is definitely a very informative and much needed article – thank you for posting this:)

    I also agree that Freemasonry is extremely dangerous and anyone who comes out of this and especially become saved needs in my mind to be “delivered” from all the indoctrination……..I don’t think people understand or realise just how dangerous Freemasonry is.

    This also goes along with other cults who appear very Christian like and there is a “jewish” like cult that started off being very Christian and then has gone way off track – this cult has groups all over America and there is one in England – this I know as I was finding out about them – and this group is very much into works big time with very little time of spending time with the Lord (if any). Women are not allowed to become involved when praying. These groups live in communities and a lot of them have had their names changed to Biblical names and so on and so forth………..a dangerous group.

    There are tons of cults out there and the more obvious ones are Latter Day Saints, Jehovah’s Witnesses, The Moonies (I can’t remember the exact name) plus the Scientist Church. But be aware as there are also groups out there that appear to be “Christian” and know the bible (so does satan by the way). These groups appear as if they know Jesus and do all the right things until suddenly once you start questioning them – faults and issues appear big time that if you are not careful and detach yourselves from them straight away, it is easy to get sucked in…………… again, these are the kind of people that approach you suddenly in the street or at a venue including Christian venues (and I am also talking here about the Jewish cult I have mentioned above).

    If someone approaches you in the street or at a Christian festival or other similar venues and starts handing you out leaflets or starts trying to invite you to their community etc – I would urge you to find out all you can about them before agreeing to go along to one of their meetings etc……Pray before hand and please do make sure you do your homework before agreeing to attend……….more often than not these groups of people who start trying to talk you into something are quite often NOT OF THE LORD…………

    There are groups that evangalise openly in towns etc in (in music especially) and who are legitimate and are part of solid churches too – but you just have to be very watchful.

    I am personally talking from experience here big time.

    I may actually carry on from this post and write up one myself on something similar.

    Blessings
    Page

  13. Jessica says:

    I am extremely proud to say that I myself am a Job's Daughter and part of the Masonic Fraternity and I promise you that it is NOT a cult. We teach others to obey the laws of their country, to respect their elders and their flag, and so on.

    Job's Daughters is an LEADERSHIP ORGANIZATION based on the Book of Job. It is to help girls who are shy and meek break out of their shell and learn how to speak in public.

    I am certain that if you were to ask a Jobie or a Bethel Guardian or Associate Bethel Guardian, they would give your our Ritual to read.

    And as for men only being allowed into the Mason's meetings, this isn't true. I myself have been into their meetings to perform many times.

    Try a researching a little more thoroughly and I think you'll find many contradictions to this accusation. I promise you there is absolutely nothing 'satanic' or 'demonic' about the Masons.

    Try learning more before making judgments based on the opinions of people who have never been a part of this amazing organization.

  14. Growing In Grace Magazine says:

    Miss Jessica,

    I did in depth research on this and even consulted with the Christian Law Association. Their legal team said that NO Church or Christian should have anything to do with the Masons. It may seem innocent to you now, and most female version of their organization won't tell you what the men who are above their beginning levels know first hand.

    There are plenty of people who have come out of Masonry and testify of what they learned while there.

    If you're right then you're a-okay. But if all the research and personal testimonies are true then don't you think you have some researching of your own to do?

    I did look deeper Miss Jessica, I ask that you do the same.

    ~Sisterlisa

  15. Jessica S. says:

    Right now, my church is doing a bible study on cults. It has been very intriquing to learn about different ‘religions’ within our society. It boggles my mind how ‘man’ seem to distort the Bible and it’s teachings. The way the cults seem to ignore the Bible all together and ‘make’ their own bibles and teachings… Our pastor said to ask three questions of any cult/religion to see if it is Biblically-based and stays in the right direction.

    Questions:
    1. Where is their source of authority??
    (we use the King James Bible) but–
    if it’s anything other than the BIBLE itself, is not true.
    (e.g. the JW’s use the Watch Tower as its main source of teachings and the bible translation New World Order–leaves HELL out among other things…

    2. What do they believe of Jesus Christ? (the Deity of Jesus Christ)
    If he is anything other than our Salvation–they are wrong.
    Jesus Christ is the only way.

    3. How to come to Salvation?

    What is ‘their’ method of salvation?? If you look into their views and it turns you away from Jesus Christ as our Saviour–then you must! look into it more deeply.

    Those are the most basic questions to ask a person about their faith…

  16. Jessica S. says:

    Sorry, the JW’s Bible is the New World Translation. Sorry for misinformation.

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